THIS IS THE PHYSICAL PAPERBACK VERSION OF UNBECOMING
 
UNBECOMING
Seeing Through the Self We Carry
What if the self you have been defending is not a core — but a reflex?
Unbecoming is a quiet examination of how identity forms, how it sustains itself through subtle reinforcement, and how it naturally softens when interference ceases.
Rather than offering a system of self-improvement or a promise of transcendence, this book looks closely at the mechanics of becoming — the moment experience arises and the mind reaches to claim it as “me.”
When that claiming relaxes, something unexpected remains.
Not absence.
Not annihilation.
But balance.
What This Book Explores
• The layered survival surface mistaken for identity
• How intersecting conditionings create the illusion of a center
• The second reaction that sustains suffering
• Why non-interference allows experience to complete itself
Drawing from lived observation rather than doctrine, Unbecoming bridges contemplative philosophy and psychological clarity.
It does not argue.
It does not persuade.
It invites.
Who This Book Is For
This book may resonate if you:
Are drawn to contemplative philosophy or non-duality
Question the solidity of identity
Sense that self-improvement may not be the full answer
Value inquiry over belief
Prefer reflection over instruction
This is not a devotional work.
It is not a productivity manual.
It is not motivational literature.
It is an exploration.
A Glimpse Inside
The self is not a core.
It is the density of intersecting conditionings mistaken for a center.
Reaction is natural.
Identification is optional.
What is not claimed does not persist.